My Spring break was mostly made up of baseball games and
spending time with the baseball team, but of course there were other things
that went on. Early in the week I did lots of chores when I was not at the
baseball field but as the week went on I spent more and more time with the
team. We played poker together and went to the river and went to a spring
training game. The end of the week included plenty of family time as well. My
grandma came to town and we went to a hockey game that Saturday then we had
family dinner’s both nights. My spring break was very fun-filled, but I also
got many important things done to help me start the fourth quarter in good
shape.
Colorado Kid
Monday, March 16, 2015
2nd Entry
Success
What
is success? How is success classified? Is the billionaire with the cool car and
the nice house but no true friends really the most successful? Or is it rather
the man who spends more time with family and takes time out of his day to enjoy
himself? I would suggest the second man is the more successful of the two. The
definition of success according to Merriam Webster’s dictionary is “the fact of
getting or achieving wealth, respect, or fame.” This definition holds true in
many instances, but there are also plenty of examples where this definition has
been contrary to what really happens. Society has led us to believe now that
the fastest runner or the richest person or the most obedient student is the
most successful. This wide-spread belief is quite mistaken. True success is
always about the character of the person and has no correlation to financial
situation, athletic ability, or obedience. Rather, success is correlated to
hard work and pushing oneself to be the best he can be. While there are many prime
examples of people with financial success, athletic success, or academic
success being truly successful, these achievements of material wealth should
not define what success really is.
Financial success is a great achievement, especially in
the society we live in today. Wealthy people have undeniably found great
success in selling their product or their services to others, but this does not
mean they are truly successful. Many rich celebrities have tarnished their
reputation through poor behavior, showing that money does not always mean success.
Britney Spears is a perfect example of wealth not defining success. Spears
achieved great fame as a teenager and was considered one of the greatest artists
of the mid-2000’s. Towards the middle of her career, Spears became the victim
of insults and ridicule because of her constant legal misconduct and poor guidance.
Spears divorced her second husband and received joint custody of her children,
only to lose her custody a year later due to a suspected drug problem. Spears
is the modern day epitome of having financial success but still not being
successful because of her poor morals. However, other individuals make the best
of their wealth by using it to benefit others. Bill Gates, the founder of
Microsoft, donates much of what he earns to charities. In 2013, the Bill and
Melinda Gates foundation donated 3.6 billion dollars to charities around the
world according to their website. He is truly successful in his life because he
has found something greater than just financial success in being charitable.
Our society defines financial success as the greatest of achievements, but if a
person resorts to poor measure and poor behavior to achieve this accomplishment,
then he has not found the real sense of success.
Athletic success is another achievement in society that
people confuse for the greatest success one can achieve. Professional athletes
are looked up to by our society, and their actions are made public by the
media. As a result, these athletes are paid quite substantially. Many make up
to tens of millions of dollars a year. Pro athletes have worked hard their
whole lives to make it to the top, but it seems many athletes are still
searching for something greater than being the best. Tiger Woods was the
greatest young golfer of his generation. By late 2009 he was on track to set
many PGA tour records, and even be considered one of the few golf “legends.” Woods
was feared by his opponents in because of his ability to perform in nearly
every tournament. Right at the peak of his career, Tiger Woods was caught in a
scandal where he cheated on his wife and crashed his car in a neighbor’s
driveway. The situation became worse when they argued publicly, leaving a large
stain on Woods’ reputation as a great golfer. A quote that brings light to
Woods’ situation is famous scientist Albert Einstein’s quote, “Try not to
become a man of success, but rather try to become a man of value.” Einstein explains
that having moral values and being a good person triumphs success every time. Tiger
Woods let fame get to him, and he not only threw away his golf career, but also
his family and friends. Bubba Watson has ninety-nine fewer tournament wins than
Woods according to the PGA tour database, but I would suggest that Watson is
more successful than Woods for his dedication to his “Bubba Watson Foundation.”
Through his use of a pink driver to raise money for his foundation and his
ongoing charity work, Bubba Watson has found something greater than winning in
giving back to others, making him more successful than Woods, whose reputation was
damaged. Many athletes give example that fame and talent are put to waste if
the athlete does not show moral strength and good character.
Another achievement that people tend to misconceive as
real success is academic success. People who have made success in the classroom
and in their profession have worked very hard for it, and they have been
diligent in their work. In society and in school, the student who works the
hardest performs the best. This hard work that some undertake may not always be
positive. Many people in school and their job over-indulge in their work. They
have given up all family time or personal time to ensure they are successful in
their job. This is a great example of true success being trumped by society’s
false views of success. Christopher Morley, an author in the early-mid 1900s,
expressed himself by saying, “There is only one success - to be able to spend
your life in your own way.” This concept can be applied to many people living
their lives convinced that work should be their priority. The truly successful
man is the one who can leave his work and find joy at home with family or
hanging out with friends. Academic success is another great achievement muddled
with true success; the ability to handle success at work but spend time at home
with family.
Financial
success, athletic success, and academic success are all great achievements that
get confused with true success. True success is found through achieving goals
and meeting expectations of oneself while staying humble along the way and sticking
to morals, even after material success is achieved. Our society has us believe
the opposite; that material success is what true success really is. The
definition of success in the dictionary: “the fact of getting or achieving
wealth, respect, or fame” even shows how material success in our society is
falsely classified as true success. The man who spends time with family, enjoys
himself during the day, and is happy with himself is the man that is truly
successful.
1st Entry
The title of my blog “Colorado Kid” has some obvious meaning
to it considering I just moved from Colorado, but it means more to me than the
fact that I just lived in Colorado. Colorado is the place I called home for ten
years of my childhood, and the place where nearly all memory I have of being a
kid was developed. Colorado was the place where many of my closest friendships
were built and where my heart still belongs. The people and the culture of
Colorado are something I will never forget and something I hope to go back to
as an adult. Also, the wildlife in Colorado is beautiful and there are endless
outdoor activities. Biking and baseball in the summer, hiking or running in the
fall and skiing or sledding in the winter and spring are just some of the
countless activities found in Colorado. Colorado really is a special place and
a place that I love more than anywhere else, so it is an appropriate name for
my blog.
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